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HOMELESS AND BROKE. BABY DADDY BEEN A DEADBEAT
Family & Parenting / 12:12 AM - Monday May 04, 2009

HOMELESS AND BROKE. BABY DADDY BEEN A DEADBEAT

IM CURRENTLY HOMELESS DUE TO AN EVICTION NOTICE. IM LIVING IN A TEMPORARY PLACE WITH A FRIEND. I HAVE A KID AND THE FATHER IS CURRENLTY ON CHILD SUPPORT. HE HAS NO IDEA WHAT IM GOING THROUGH, BUT AFTER ALL THESE YEARS THAT IVE STRUGGLED WITH MY KID NOW SINCE HE GRADUATED WITH A MASTERS DEGREE, NOW HE WANTS TO COME A LONG AND PLAY FATHER AND POSSIBLY TAKE MY SON AWAY BECAUSE OF MY PRIOR CRIMINAL RECORD. I HAVE NO CONVICTIONS , SO CAN HE DO THAT.. WHAT R THE CHANCES THAT HE GETS FULL CUSTODY

- Asked by Female, 26-28

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Are you the same gal who doesn't like her baby daddy mamma?

- Response by divatoonami, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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Pretty slim, in most cases to change custody he has to prove that you have neglected or endangered the child. Just don't worry about that at the moment, you need to get your crap together and take care of you child. Hopefully you have a job and can get another place to live. If not, get a job and prove that you are a good mother. As long as you are supporting your child (not just with child support) and are not doing drugs and hanging out with bad people you should be ok.

- Response by sgross01, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Executive

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Chances for him...are pretty good....You need to get back on your feet...why don't you let him take the child until you are back on your feet...don't you think your child would be better off in a more stable environment....good luck!

- Response by divatoonami, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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You dont give enough information, Laws vary in different countries, you leave us all guessing .
The mother usually has 90% of custody decisions
tell us more

- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older

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