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Can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?
Sex & Intimacy / 4:44 PM - Friday May 01, 2009

can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?

- Asked by Female, 26-28

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If a woman HAS to fake an orgasm with a man, that means he doesn't know how to give her one. In that case, he would probably never know if she faked it.

- Response by myndseye711, A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35

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She'll tweet about it... If she doesn't die from the swine flu first.

We've already lost Kermit. :(

- Response by desota18, A Creative, Male, 22-25, Student

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Obviously not.

We've been fakin' 'em for centuries and they haven't caught on yet.

- Response by hnygrl, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Managerial

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Very few can tell.

- Response by lacey07, A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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I sure hope not lol

- Response by babygirlstar81, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, New York, Self-Employed

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of course...we just dont say anything because we want you to think youre good actresses!

- Response by kluck, A Jock, Male, 29-35, Technical

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typically, unless its the first time she's orgasmed with him. that is if the guy even cares (some don't)

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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If he pays attention to, and understands a womans body.. Yes.

Most can't, however.

- Response by steve67, A Rebel, Male, Who Cares?

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Well...women don't always orgasm every single time...and that's okay it doesn't mean we didn't have a good time...but always strive for this to happen. I don't think you should fake anything. I'm sure they wonder...

- Response by lasttrueromantic, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Teaching

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This man can tell. There's certain things that happen that gives it away.

- Response by wudaddy, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 36-45, Dallas, Law Enforcement

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No way

- Response by ghfan1207, A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Home Maker

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No, not really. If she's good at acting she can fake one and we'll never know.

And then he'll think he's cracked how to get you off and you'll have to fake them for the rest of your time with him. That would be sad.

Look, if he doesn't do it for you then teach him how to do it. That would be way more fun for you wouldn't it?

- Response by spongecake, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?

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My guy could always tell ! I don't even know how...Its not that he can't make me orgasm but sometimes i'm not into it & just want it to be over with. That sounds really bad, but i do enjoy sex with him just not when i'm stressed. My guy always makes me really really wet...i think that's how he can tell. If i'm not wet like i usually am then thats his hint that i'm not that into sex that day.

- Response by foreverbemine, A Creative, Female, 22-25, Student

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oh, I can tell. Now if it were the first time with a new partner, maybe not. My s/o has a few times in the past, when she may have been to tired, or just not that into it at the moment. No big deal, i understand. There is a definate increase in wetness, and contraction which can easily be felt.

- Response by sdaddy, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Philadelphia, Construction

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No a man cannot tell FOR SURE....he may think he can, but hes wrong.

- Response by upallnitetoo, A Creative, Female, 46-55

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Enjoying it without having an orgasm is fine, but why would you give credit where no credit is due by faking it? If he thinks he has made you come he will never try anything different, half the fun is in trying ;o)

- Response by robyn76, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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