|Friendship / 11:30 PM - Friday April 24, 2009|
My best friend chooses her boyfriend over me..not sure what to do?
My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years, never had any major problems or fights. She has been with her boyfriend for only 7 months yet she seems to be choosing him over me! She told me that her boyfriend doesn't like me, but he also dislikes a few other friends of hers. It makes absolutely NO SENSE..I have only met him a handful of times and never said/did anything wrong to him. My bff and I used to hang out all the time, but now since she has a boyfriend AND he doesn't like me I almost never see her..when we do hang out she lies to her boyfriend and says she is doing something else. The last time I talked to her was 2 weeks ago and she said we would do something soon, and hasn't called me/contacted me since. Most of the time when I want to hang out she says "I can't i'm hanging out with my boyfriend"- she sees him allll the time, and only sees me like once a month!
- Asked by Female, 22-25
Nahhh.. just make yourself busy or make sometime for you and your own boyfriend. In time she'll figure out she's missing something and thats your friendship.
Why is it so important to hang out with this particular person when it should be obvious that she has other things going on right now? Give her some slack. If she's a real friend you'll hear from her. Don't push.