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What do late nite text messages from a man mean?
Dating / 11:07 AM - Monday April 20, 2009

what do late nite text messages from a man mean?

he texts only at nights usually after 10 pm..he usually texts "hello" or "are you out" I havent responded to any of them but he keeps testing and it usually is thurs or fri nights.

Update: April 20, 2009.
thanks for all the responses!

- Asked by stof140, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 36-45

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booty call

- Response by busyb704, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Other Profession

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He wants to hook up with you. Total booty call, or booty text I guess!

- Response by almostsinful, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45

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he is persistent to get your attention for some reason.
why do you not text him back if he is just friendly?

- Response by amandasboy, A Father Figure, Male, 66 or older, Atlanta, Retired

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You're 36 years old and you still wonder why men call women at night?

Hello? He'd like a little booty snack gf.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering

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It might be what everyone else is saying - a booty call. Then again, maybe his free minutes don't start until 10pm. Maybe he's busy with work, school, or a part-time job and this could be the only feasible time to call. Maybe he's interested in you but you'll never won't return his text because it after 10pm. He doesn't know if texting/calling you this late offends you unless you tell him. There only one way to find out for sure, ASK HIM! When he text this Thursday or Friday text him back and find out his intentions. You'll know within 5 minutes (or less) if it's a booty call or just a friendly greeting.

I think you're feeling him. You had some type of vibe from him because how else would he have gotten your number unless you gave it to him. Why would you give out your number and not answer/respond to the call/text? Most women stress-out about why men don't call!

Now do the big girl thing and call/text him and casually ask what's up and stop all this guessing.

- Response by sugarlump, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Artist / Musician / Writer

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he want a piece of your goodies

- Response by sexysteff89, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Student

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Ah...the famous booty call now converted to the booty text. When will guys ever give up that shit!

- Response by joybird, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Therapist

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1 of 2 things, booty call or drunk texts. either way it's not great if he only texts then.

- Response by sohodutch, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, New York, Technical

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booty call.
Bravo on not answering!!!!!

- Response by milfinmpls, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Minneapolis, Who Cares?

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Maybe he's thinking about you around that time or is considering taking you out around those days. I would do the same thing of not responding back to those text messages 'cause I'd rather be the 1st thing on his mind beginning of the week instead of a Thursday.

- Response by vivianvixen, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, New York, Administrative

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the only thing a guy could want that late is sex. if hes texting you late night and seeing if youre around, youre a booty call. take it if you want it, but dont expect any emotions.

- Response by julieintheskyywithdiamonds, An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28, New York, Who Cares?

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