|Dating / 11:43 PM - Tuesday April 14, 2009|
Why didn't he kiss me on our date?
We went out for the first time.. He was a total gentleman..Hold the door and insisited on paying for everything. At the end of the night he hugged me goodbye and even made a call to me on the way home. He has also called for the past 3 days since the date.. He lives about 30 minutes from me and he mentioned, "next time you'll have to come over to my area." He works as a deputy and has a crazy schedule of overnight 12-hour shifts..We havent set up another date but he has a habit of asking the same day.. Why wouldnt he kiss me goodbye? Is he interested in seeing each other again?
- Asked by Female, 29-35
Because like you just said, he's a gentleman, and gentleman don't kiss on the first date, dogs do...
I think you answered your own question... You said the man was a "total gentleman". He may not have thought it appropriate to kiss on a first date. I don't think he would have called you on your way home or called every day the past 3 days if he's not interested. Most of the time if they're not interested they just won't call at all. Maybe he's looking for a sign from you that you're interested before he decides to kiss you? My current boyfriend didn't kiss me until our 3rd date, partially because he knew I was a "good girl" and didn't want me to feel like he was pushing things. Next time he calls I would mention something you're interested in doing and see if he suggests doing it together... Either that or just flat out ask him to do something. If/when you do have a date, be sure to give him some signs you're interested in that goodnight kiss. Good luck!