|Dating / 9:55 AM - Thursday April 02, 2009|
His ex wife thinks that she is still apart of his family.
My boyfriend of almost 1 year has been divorced for about 5 years. His ex lives in CA we live elsewhere. Well, his mother's birthday is next month and we were going to fly out to see her. (I've already met her in January while we were on vacation.) But now we find out that his ex wife already bought plane fare to be out there for her ex mother in law's birthday. Granted she used to live in the area and will visit old friends too, but we are now not sure what we should do.We don't want to cause any drama, but we would still like to be there for his mother's birthday. We could always fly out before or after, but we are feeling slighted that she is worming her way back into a family that is no longer hers.
- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
Unfortunately, I think you are stuck. If the ex is invited to the party your only option if you wish to attend is to be polite.