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If a guy stands you up what do you do ? never see hiim agaiin or second chance?
Dating / 4:09 PM - Wednesday March 25, 2009

if a guy stands you up what do you do ? never see hiim agaiin or second chance?

meh and this guy asshole we'll call him lol went out for two yearz and we were in love wiit achootha we were the couple people saiid aww ii want what yuh two have anyway down the line we ended up going through alot of trust issues nd fights tearz violence so we broke up iitz now a year since we have been togethere but now he calls and wantz to chyll so weve hooked up a couple timez sincce .. but lastnite we planned a romantic sleepover and i put on my new dress and everything ii call hiim up and hez out wit his friiend he saiiz oh ill see yuh layda so ii saiid no jus forget it and he said fine am i right or wrong and now what does he get a second chance or do i say hey yuh had tha chance and yuh blew it?

Update: March 29, 2009.

Update: March 29, 2009.
the waii ii wriite iiz wat ii feel cmfortable wiit so all yuh hataz stop poiintiin ya finger at meh cuz if yuh had a conversation wiit me yuh would kno dat i do have a very good vocabulary and itz amazing how judging people can be when thiz website iz about advice anyway thankz to al all the real people that gave me advice

- Asked by qenuiinemamiix0, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 22-25, New York, Other Profession

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Hey gorgeous !
Don't go back to him. He stood you up. NA AA that doesn't work! He knew you had a romantic sleepover planned. If he really thought it was important, he would have been there, ready to spend the night and enjoy every miinute with you. He would have gone out with his buds an other time!
You've been there, done that got a t-shirt. You guys didn't work out. Why hang around for more drama ?
You are a lady that deserves a good man. I think he has burned up his chances with you. Get yourself a new guy with who everything will be hot and happy ! Not a return to your past with questions and issues.
Smile and get over him, you will be happier in the long run. think big picture !

- Response by loveu142, A Trendsetter, Female, 26-28, Quebec, Internet / New Media

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Is there something wrong with your keyboard?

Could you provide us an English translation?

- Response by utahmom, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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Community Rating: Community Star

Translation, English.....

Thank you, in advance....

- Response by richard77, A Creative, Male, Who Cares?

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Hang around if you enjoy being played, which is what he's doing to you...

- Response by jojospice, A Guy Critical, Male, Who Cares?, Political / Government

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In my opinion, he gets no second chance. He had his chance last night and chose to stay with his buddies so let him stay with his buddies tonight and future nights as well. He blew it, he lost!

- Response by lacey07, A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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i think you should ask him i he really wants a long term relationship with someone who butchers the english language as badly as you do.

i mean, cmon, with the intelligence youre displaying, the depth of the gene pool any future spawn will be coming from isnt going be that of the marianas trench.

(NOTE: i would like to apologize to any answerologists who were offended by my blatant abuse of what is aparantly a severly handicapped and/or intelectually challenged young woman. my response was intended only to answer a question, not to offend any of you who are, right now, staring at your monitors agast that i, of all people, would dare to go there in regards to how someone else writes, and you have my deepest apologies for any discomfort my remark caused you.)

- Response by maleficpresence, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Technical

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ove kource iz knawt ur phualt.... dat gai lyke-tothali bleu hiz channze wit u! gurl u dezerves bether.

- Response by kungfudewd, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Well, he was on his second chance already, wasnt he? I'm very sceptical to getting back with exes anyway.
You got an interesting writing style, by the way, not bad, I just never seen anything like it.

- Response by klaxometro, An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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What language is that?

- Response by vabyss, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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waht teh ufck? :|

- Response by j3s5e, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?

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If I could understand what you are saying, perhaps I could shed some light, seeing as how I don't I cannot.
I will say this, If you expect people to take you seriously, you yourself need to do some reflecting.

- Response by retrokatie, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Student

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your right, your entitled to lead people people to think your an idiot. good job you have succeeded :)

- Response by j3s5e, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?

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this one really depends. At least ask for an explanation... I know I did give a woman a second chance on a date she "no showed" on me.. But she was otherwise detained at the time!!! (that is an inside joke if she is reading these) I'll share if you want privately

- Response by hoopsjunkie, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Indianapolis, Self-Employed

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Judging by your writing skills you don't sound like you're mature enough for monogamy. Perhaps you should focus on school more for now.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering

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