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What does it mean if a guy leaves something at your place after first date?
Dating / 7:27 PM - Tuesday March 17, 2009

What does it mean if a guy leaves something at your place after first date?

I jumped into sex too early with a guy. I know I shouldn't have but I did....I thought we had a connection.

He is a flight attendant so he won't be back for 2 weeks. He left his 170 dollar watch at my place. He hasn't called yet, but I don't know how I should feel about this situation. When he left, he said "Ill see you soon" and when I said " no we won't" (because I thought he thought it was a one night thing) he asked for my number.

I thought even if he wasn't interested, he would have still called about the expensive watch! no? But anyhow, was this on purpose and mean something or should I just be as sad and skeptical as my friends all are?

- Asked by Female, 26-28

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Sounds like the 2nd date is a sure thing.

And yes you did have a connection.........at the hips.

But he will call, I know I would.

- Response by guy506, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Houston, Other Profession

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Heck NO he didn't leave his watch at your place on purpose..He is probably pissed off he forgot it. Seriously!

- Response by lovelylife, A Career Woman, Female, Who Cares?

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If a guy says "I'll see you soon" and you DO want another date why on earth would you say "No, we won't"? How would you have felt if you have told him "See you soon" and HE would have said that you won't?

Anyway, honestly I think he left it by mistake. But I am sure he will come back for it when he gets back into town. And maybe he even wants to take you out on a date? Stranger things have happened.

- Response by silver75, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Stockholm, Other Profession

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MAYBE HE LEFT IT AS PAYMENT FOR THE SEX OR HE'S MARRIED/TAKEN

- Response by A Cool Mom, Female, 56-65, Transportation

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he's absentminded or he'll be baaaack

- Response by istaywired, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Political / Government

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