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What does a guy mean when he says"we'll get together soon"? Context:We had sex and he's been dodgy.
Dating / 5:18 PM - Tuesday March 17, 2009

What does a guy mean when he says"we'll get together soon"? Context:We had sex and he's been dodgy.

I hooked up with a guy I had known for awhile but not real well. We have gone out a few times. We had sex and he left really fast and hasn't been calling or texting since. I asked him today if he would like ot go get a drink and he says he can't because he has his son but we'll get together soon. Seems vague and avoiding to me! We are in our early 30's.

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Science / Engineering

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That is loser pig latin for -If I ever get really drunk and no other woman is around, and I can still see the numbers on my cell phone, I will call you.

- Response by aoluserchick, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Consulting

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I think it means he's trying to let you down easy. I'd be grateful....plenty of fish in the sea :)

- Response by baybreeze69, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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It means 'thanks for the sex but you'll never be seeing my face ever, again'.

Move on. He is not interested.

- Response by utahmom, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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sounds like he's either the run-by sex offender or (how do i put this delicately), the sex was lousy. so, you'll probably never hear from him again, either way. no need to pressure him.

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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He got what he wanted and vamoosed. Until he wants some more.

- Response by wudaddy, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 29-35, Dallas, Law Enforcement

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Sorry to say, you were a booty call. He'll call again when he wants some and if he does, hang up on his ass!

- Response by dolphingirl44, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Tampa, Veterinary

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Sounds like "He's just not that into you." He got what he wanted and now he's off to find it somewhere else. Give it up -he's showed he's not interested. Move on - you can't force feelings.

- Response by gowith, A Thinker, Female, 56-65

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It sound like he's not interested. He got what he wanted from you and now is moving onn to someone else.

- Response by barbb, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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