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Divorced & remarried - what are the chances
Sex & Intimacy / 9:14 AM - Friday March 13, 2009

divorced & remarried - what are the chances

that they are still inlove with their ex? what would the tell-tale signs be if they are? and how can you tell if they really love YOU?

- Asked by A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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I guess it's possible. But golly, divorce is such and awful, destructive, and emotion hell I can't imagine someone going through it and still being that much in love with their ex. But, who knows--sure it's possible.

I guess the biggest ell tale sign is whether you come first or the ex does. In every situation, are you the first in line, the first mention, the first he turns to. Start there.

- Response by justyourtypicalguy, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Science / Engineering

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very tough question. some people do remarry their ex. however, most still have the same problems and same expectations, which helped cause the divorce. therefore, they are headed down the same path.

you can tell they REALLY love each other when they have CHANGED and ADDRESSED the problem area which caused the divorce. they can talk about it like adults, and both admit wrong doing. they tell each other they realize they made a HUGE mistake and don't ever want to go down that path again. plus, all the normal romantic things happen (flowers, sexy nights, etc).

personally, an ex is an ex, and needs to stay that way.

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Science / Engineering

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you know what the chances are they might still be in love with the ex are... HIGH! they love you if they are with you, especially if they have the ability to choose.

- Response by A Career Woman, Female, 22-25, Other Profession

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once an ex always an ex,sure the occaisional booty call happens for the first year or two but once replaced she is history.you get divorced for a reason an thats never pretty or fun to go thru.mostly i only tolerated the ex at functions with the kids an tried to just be nice but the idea of getting back with them an starting in again no way, just shoot me. then when the kids turn 18 i lose their number and address we have nothing left to talk about.

- Response by kjman, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Construction

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