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| Sex & Intimacy / 2:47 PM - Sunday March 08, 2009 |
What do you do if you find you husband/wife/s.o. masturbating?Guys/ladies,
- Asked by fotoman1133406, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Other Profession |
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watch..and make p0pcoRn..
- Response by pinknblu, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
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If I caught my husband doing that, I would probably laugh then join in depending on my mood.
- Response by geisha1017, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Self-Employed
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I'd hop on train and show him something better to do with his hand LOL
- Response by desota18, A Creative, Male, 22-25, Self-Employed
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If I were a lady, I would help him with getting it on and pleasuring him in anyway possible. Each should help the other with such intimate things.
- Response by A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Other Profession
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My guy wants you to know that "plowin the fur spot" is the funniest thing he has ever heard... And he likes to watch...
- Response by siouxzen, A Creative, Female, 56-65, San Francisco, Self-Employed
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After I picked myself up off the floor from fainting from surprise, I'd ask "who are you and what have you done with my s/o?" lol
- Response by bob49, A Rebel, Male, 56-65, Seattle, Transportation
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watch and THEN join in. i think most men would LOVE to see their partner stroking the beaver.
- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering
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it depends...on if she was thinking about me while doing it.
- Response by sirkermittsg, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Dallas, Transportation
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jump right in! unless they wanted to fly solo. but i don't think they would have a problem with making it a team effort!
- Response by pregunta, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Other Profession
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Since it is hypothetical about her, I would ask if I could help. If she wanted me to help I would in any way that I could.
- Response by welloone, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 56-65, Retired
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IF I caught her.....which I am sure I would not......cuz she never does that.........I would want to join in and help her.
- Response by nuttyprofessor, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Transportation
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I undress and join him!
- Response by lacey07, A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession
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Both single and married WOMEN & MEN do this...I would have been very hurt and then angry. And the questions would come out of my mouth like a drunken sailor! Most people I have talked to have been real hurt when they catch their s/o doing this. It is true that one can please oneself more than anyone else, but to do it by themself is the real issue here. I have had partners who say here let me please you with whatever toy...or if you prefer to do it yourself AFTER we have made love and I think a couple can do so WITH their s/o and make it PART of their experience together. I had a neighbor whose husband bought her a "play toy" and told her to take care of herself as he was exhausted...then he came home and was mad that she was. I would have thrown him out had he bought me 'it' and told me that to start with. One person wrote into ANSWEROLOGY that her b/f PREFERRRED mastrubating and I told her that was a BAD BAD SIGN..
- Response by blucat, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Executive
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Since my SO seems to prefer his own strokes to mine ... well, I'm hurt.
- Response by myrtletyrtle, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
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This has never happened to me before..so I'm not sure exactly what I would do..but I know I wouldn't get angry about it lol
- Response by greeneyedbeauty88, A Thinker, Female, 22-25
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lol my boyfriend lives with other people so he cant just do it whenever....but if i did catch him i'd help him getting off then have sex
- Response by silenceiskey77, A Thinker, Female, 22-25
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I would be psyched to be able to see it, then I would stay as quiet as possible and try to watch the whole thing without him noticing me.
- Response by milla, A Thinker, Female, 36-45
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i have walked in on my s/o masterbating with a pair of my panties and i just stood in the doorway watching til he noticed me, then i stood by the bed strpped got on and we masterbated together before an awesome time having sex.
- Response by rnkatie, An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental
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hmm i would be creep out at first but then be like baby dont you want the real thing and strip for him
- Response by sindee88, A Life of the Party, Female, 22-25, Retail
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If he was looking at porn , I would just walk away as that is really yuck..lol.. But if the situation was right.....I might ask if he needed a hand!
- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
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With my ex-wife, I used to do it right out in the open, like on the living room couch (blinds drawn of course, and no kids), because I knew she loved it and if she walked in on me, would either finish would I started, drop her pants right there and want to have me right away, or would masturbate herself while she continued to watch me.
- Response by tomtomcat, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, New York, Teaching
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let her put on a show for you then join in.
- Response by headscratching, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering
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