|Dating / 12:19 AM - Monday March 02, 2009|
How do you deal with a drama-queen sister?
I have a sister who is older than me. She recently went through a divorce, but over the course of her whole life everything is always about HER... She got married. She nearly left. She cheated. She stayed. She had a baby. All the big events to get everyone's attention and talk about. Drama throughout the whole marriage. Always had to discuss in great detail... She left him for another man. In love like no one else has ever been before. She has left him four times. The last time she said was for good... Now she's "talking" to him again. I give her advice and she loves to talk and talk and talk about her trouble and then she turns around goes back to him or does the exact opposite. And then she wants to talk about how "awesome" her relationship is and how he is her best friend and she can't imagine how anyone else in the world could be this in love. And how she's going to marry him. I am so freaking tired of discussing everything to death, but I am her sister and I love her. I have told her I am tired of hearing all the drama and asked her to please make a decision one way or the other. It's like she's deaf. I know I'm venting, but does anyone else have anyone in their life like this and how do you deal with them? It's very annoying and very, very draining.
- Asked by abbybelle, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35
The more you hear it the more you are bringing her life drama into your life creating even more of that unwanted life style. So the only way to get rid of it is to stop associating with her.
Yes, I have known people like that and the only way to avoid listening to them is to refuse to listen! Walk away and tell them why......because you don't want to listen to the drama anymore. Good luck! :)