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| Married Life / 10:36 PM - Sunday March 01, 2009 |
I had a dream about my husband cheating on me.To tell the dream would take some reading time but I'll add what I think matters most. He was not the person I married, completely uncaring for me, though he still cared for the kids. I so badly wanted him to stay but knew that he wasn't going to and I didn't want him to stay if he was going to be this uncaring person. Long story short, I didn't have time in my dream to cry so I woke up crying. He has never given me reason to think he would cheat or have a mind to do so. Why would I dream such a thing and to dream of him being so hateful? Never have I had a dream where I woke up so emotional over it. Thanks for your thoughts!! - Asked by Female, 29-35 |
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I suspect you love him deeply and your fear of him straying was enough to set your mind into overdrive as you slept. Don't give it another thought.
- Response by agesago, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Transportation
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Dreams are unreal moments designed by the brain. Our brain works 24/7/365 and it puts together a series of thoughts you might have had at some point in time. If you think about your dream...it generated within a sense of fear and loathing about some wild notion of having been violated. Some would say there a deep meaning in this moment. BUT, I would suggest that you love yout husband deeply and would hate to lose him...for any reason...not just having your trust violated. In many ways, these tough economic times within which we find ourselves generate a great deal of confusion about what is certain. In some persons, that uncertainty can be felt on the marital level...some economic level...while others a more personal level...perhaps dreaming of free falling into an abyss of some sort.
- Response by angllhugnu2, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Administrative
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Your dream is simply reinforcing your thoughts, knowing how much you DO care for him and fear loosing him.
- Response by shanegalang, A Rebel, Male, 36-45, Transportation
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don't know, if he hads never given you reason to think that's he's cheating,then maybe it was something you heard or watched and you turned it into a situation that would relate to you maybe? have you told him about you dream? if so what was his reaction...if he got mad, then uh i would keep my eyes out, if he wasw loving and caring toward you then it was just a dream...
- Response by kellybell26, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Tampa, Fashion
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