|Sex & Intimacy / 12:11 AM - Wednesday February 11, 2009|
how can i passionately make out with a guy without making him think i want to have sex?
I am not a fan of making out in public, but I am a fan of making out. However, I feel like saying "wanna come back to my place" is equivalent to saying "wanna have sex." To make matters worse, I live in a dorm, and most of the guys I meet live in dorms, so the only room available for kissing in private is the bedroom and the only piece of furniture is the bed. I feel that this sends the wrong message and, while the idea of making out on the bed really appeals to me, I don't want him to be surprised when I don't go further. What signals can I send to a guy to let him know ahead of time that i want to stop at kissing?
- Asked by Female, 22-25
you dont want to have sex then you dont' have a passionate make out session, especially at your age.. guys are not good at dealing with that a kiss here and there is fine.. passionate makeout sessions are not
Just tell him not to try anything--that you just want to kiss and cuddle. He may try anyway but at least he will know what your intentions are.