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If you give a guy your number but he didn't text/call do you ignore him or say hi when you see him?
Friendship / 6:47 PM - Saturday January 31, 2009

If you give a guy your number but he didn't text/call do you ignore him or say hi when you see him?

I gave a guy my number on a piece of paper the last day of class but he never texted...and now i see him everywhere..

- Asked by love4mmllz11, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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Oh-boy, if it persists maybe he's a stalker and you should phone the police...

- Response by gingeroot, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, Vancouver, Student

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You can say Hi and be friendly towards him but anything past that is up to him. You gave him an opening and if he didn't take advantage of it then its his fault. Its up to him now to establish anything more than a friendly "HI" in passing.

- Response by shyguy63, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Other Profession

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It unfortunately sounds like he wasn't interested so he is most likely being distant so that you don't suspect he wants to go further. You might tell him you are okay being friends with him and just be casually friendly towards him.

- Response by darkpyramid, A Rebel, Male, 36-45, Houston, Self-Employed

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If he says hi first, then you should reciprocate. If not, I would just ignore him. You don't owe him anything, and you have a right to avoid uncomfortable situations.


- Response by myndseye711, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Vladivostok, Celebrity

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You really don't know anything. Ignoring him is kind of a rude way to go about things, in my opinion. Say hi and speak if you feel like it. Maybe something came up and he never called. Maybe he was too nervous to call. Maybe he met another girl or got back together with his ex. Or maybe he washed your number in his jeans. Or maybe you gave him the wrong number by accident. Or maybe he likes guys now.

The point is, it could be any number of reasons he didn't call and none of them necessarily have anything to do with you. You won't find out if you don't say hi and speak. But really, you should try to develop the attitude that it doesn't matter if a guy calls or not.

- Response by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35

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Smile and say "hi", but don't have any expectations of him.

- Response by gettingstronger, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Teaching

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Well, at least say hi. Maybe he lost the number. Maybe he has a girlfriend. Did he seem interested? There are a lot of things that could have made him not text or call. Try not to worry so much. There are other guys out there. Don't spend your time on just this one guy. Play hard to get too. Sometimes that makes a guy or girl want you more. Just don't stress yourself over it. You already have enough on you since you are in school. Just go with the flow.
TTFN

- Response by summerlysnow, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Home Maker

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Say "Hi" a few times. If he is interested, he will make the next move.

- Response by thundermist04167, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Who Cares?

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well how long has it been? Maybe he is shy guy and he does not know how to approach you. If you like him, then maybe you should pursue him and see what his deal is, but if not, then just forget about it hun.

- Response by ageni86, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Buffalo

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I'd just say hi....

- Response by tinydancersmom, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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i would ignore him.he didnt care enough to call you so he doesnt derseve acknowledgement.

- Response by A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, New York, Who Cares?

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