Your age alone pretty much says it all. Most women your age are like that. I know because I dealt with it a lot from women when I was your age. As a former "nice guy," I thought expressing myself to women was what women liked. But I found out the hard way that that is a huge myth. Most women your age don't want a guy who is available whenever you want to be around him. Most women like a guy who is a bit of an asshole because many women think they can "change" him into what they want him to be. The assholes are different, they play women, bang them and leave them, and are emotionally unavailable. I have found out that women like to chase men just as much as guys like to chase women. So with you I think it's all about the chase. The harder, the better. The bad thing is that you may also become one of those women once you reach your thirties who constantly complain that there no good men out there, when the reality is that you bypassed them all or treated them all like shit when you were younger, and now you're suddenly alone. It's something you may grow out of once you're older, but considering your age at the moment, you're not even remotely the only woman your age who does things like this. Take it from me, I have dealt with what seems like dozens of women like you when I was your age.
- Response by newdad
, A Jock, Male, 36-45, Las Vegas, Transportation