|Dating / 10:33 PM - Monday January 26, 2009|
is he ignoring my text?? what gives??
i've been seeing this guy for three months. Currently he is unemployed and about to start his own business. I understand he could be a bit distracted at this stage so i'm patience with him and doing my own things too. However, there is one problem is driving me crazy is that it takes him forever (hours to 1-2 days) to reply an email or text and he doesnt even call.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
I don't answer every text sent to me and I don't expect everyone to answer every text. Life is busy and sometimes you don't have time to respond or have anything to say. Wait a few days and get in touch again. You should also consider talking on the phone or in person during the beginning of a relationship, you lose a lot of subtle context with texting.
if you want him to touch base more or talk to you more or even reply to your texts then you should just ask him to. If he's running a business then he probably appreciates people who get right to the point. Don't be aggressive though, be suggestive but direct. You know the business slogan of time is money.