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Why do guys suddenly kindda disappear just to reappear one week later after the 1st date???
Dating / 1:32 PM - Saturday January 24, 2009

Why do guys suddenly kindda disappear just to reappear one week later after the 1st date???

Ive had a couple of experiences whereby the guys kindda disappear, ie: no texts, no calls. Just to reappear one week later after the 1st date???

Or, the calls and texts are less frequent but still show the same level of care & concern towards you after the 1st date??? Im totally lost!

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Singapore, Administrative

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I think a week is a bit too long not to talk to someone you had a great date with. Always measure his interest and intentions. Because he does want to keep in touch for some reason. And you need to see what that reason is.

- Response by mboydtn, A Career Woman, Female, 26-28, Atlanta, Political / Government

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Um..not unles you are dating Chris Angel???
ijs~~~* :D

- Response by lady4u, A Married Girl, Female, 56-65, Cincinnati, Who Cares?

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Because if we call to soon you lose interest because we seem to eager, too easy a catch etc.

In general, experience show that while there's no perfect amount of time to wait before calling, waiting too long has better consequences than waiting too little.

- Response by windlord, A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Who Cares?

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