|Dating / 10:36 PM - Wednesday January 21, 2009|
I think my boyfriend's insensitive & deserves the boot. What do you think?
My boyfriend did something to me that really hurt my feelings. Last night, while sitting in the car, I expressed my feelings to him & cried hysterically because of the pain I feel. Sitting in his seat, he barely reached over to put a hand on my shoulder. He never hugged me or attempted to upon my upset. Needless to say, it was late, I wasn't feeling any better & he was being insensitive, so I went in.
- Asked by Female, 36-45
I think if you feel this qualifies as insensitive, then you are in for a lifetime of disappointment. No man wants to be smothered. He made a point of saying he expects a day to himself. That was his signal that he needs space.
hi..We have had almost same feelings.My boyfriend is also similar as yours.But I have to fight for what i feel c0z i love him that much and hoping i can chnge his attitude even not abruptly but slowly c0z for the better. Sometimes I dont knw what to do and asking by myself if he really loves.I also asked him about what i feel but he is always telling me that Im always looking for his negative acts.Im so upset evrytime i told him evrythng.and dont know what to do.But in fairness to him he makes his efforts by calling me and informing me his whereabouts if when his home already.But my problem is same as yours.Because woman wants that their boyfriend cared for us and be sensitive for what we feel.Thats why I open that issue to him but he is always telling me we will talk that topic for antoher day or just ignoring the issue.I know in a realtionship communication is the key,thats why you have to talk it over with him about what is wrong and right.Need some advices too..sometimes i wana give up but Im afraid of loosing him.Thank y0u and have a good day!