|Dating / 1:46 AM - Sunday January 11, 2009|
Why would someone call, ask you out on a date and then stand you up? I don't understand.
We used to be co-workers (he's a fairly new employee) and on my final day of work I told him it'd be nice to go out sometime if he'd like to. We exchanged numbers and he called the next day. I missed his call and his message said he was calling to see if I'd like to get together the following week. I phoned back and he invited me out for tonight and said he'd call in the interim with details. He never called and I texted him to see if we were still on tonight and he didn't reply. I guess I don't understand why someone would go through the trouble of calling and partially setting something up and then not follow through when he would have never seen me again to begin with and could have easily said no and tossed my number, let alone call for a date. In the time I got to know him, this does not seem typical. He's very polite and courteous and straight forward. I'm very disappointed and quite confused. I'm wondering how other's deal with this?
- Asked by skiddlywinks, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Norfolk
Because they don't like you.
Community Rating: Community Star
That sucks, next time don't agree to go out the same day. It makes them think that you don't have a life. Say that you have plans for that day but give them another day when you can go out. I don't know what happened with this guy but it was messed up what he did, lose his number, someone better will come along.