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My girlfriend wants to use a strap-on on me...
Sex & Intimacy / 2:59 PM - Sunday December 28, 2008

My girlfriend wants to use a strap-on on me...

Any body ever done it? I am kind of intrigued by it.

- Asked by Male, 36-45

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I know that some people are really into this, but I have never understood what the appeal could possibly be.


- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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LOL...this is the generalized female answer to men who keep insisting on anal....only after you submit!

- Response by joybird, A Hippie Chick, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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not with a strap on...but you should let her try it...you may like it.

- Response by lasttrueromantic, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Teaching

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Why not???Men have been expecting this from women all the time.See if you like it and go from there.


- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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I've toyed with the idea, but never very seriously. I saw a film porn flick called bendover boyfriend and some guys like it. Their wives would do strap on and the guys looks like they liked it. I'd give anything a shot once, just to try it and see if I liked it.

- Response by A Career Man, Male, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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I have never done it with a strap-on...but I have done it..at a boyfriends request..he liked it.

- Response by bikerchick1, A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Atlanta, Financial / Banking

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I thought a man wanting to have something stuck up his ass was a gay thing. A finger is one thing--a strap one is quite another! Very gay to me. Keep in mind that anal penetration can be VERY painful.

- Response by olson, A Creative, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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Hey bro,my exs done it to me all the time,a strapon and just some of their reg. dildos,let me tell you,if you let her use a toy,up your ass,its very exciting,strapon or reg. toy,when she put a toy,up my ass,then we had sex,wow,its great,it stimulates the prostate,really adding to the amount of hardness,as well as the amount of cum you,ll shoot . Dont worry,its not a gay thing,alot of girls really like a guy,usin one,alone or toghether,theres nothing gay about it,give it a try,its awsome,i use one,alone when i jack off,too .

- Response by walt3289, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Managerial

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......way too homoie

- Response by unclemeat, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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whatever floats your boat it's real homosexual behavior to me. I do it to my boyfriend but then i would wonder if he would sleep with a man.I am not judging but i would not feel comfortable. I don't use dildo cause the real thing is so much better get my drift.

- Response by sag79, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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Ignore everyone calling it gay. It's only gay if you're having sex with a man. They may as well say that any women who likes to receive oral sex is a lesbian. Give it a try.

- Response by ryanthegreatarj, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, Student

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