|Dating / 10:12 AM - Saturday December 13, 2008|
Is he afraid to fall in love and in a relationship?
I have been seeing/dating this guy for two months..going on three. We text each other everyday, we talk, hang out and have great sex. I know that he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life, and I am not pressuring him to be in a relationship with me, but he keeps reminding me (like usually after sex..like a few days after) that he likes what we have and does not want anything more. Then I asked him what we should label "us" as then, he said that he was bad at that, so I told him that we are seeing/dating each other and he agreed. I know that since he is bad at labeling "relationships", and things to do with them, I agree with him, because I am also not in a rush, but I think that he is afraid to fall in love with me. I really need help, because he is a very confused man, and I want him to know that I like what we have, but eventually I do want to love him, I want to show him that it is not bad to be in love, or in a relationship.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
Depending on how old you are he probably just wants to hook up. You probably want more out of it; but he just wants some booty and it will remain that way....