|Dating / 9:29 PM - Saturday December 06, 2008|
How to know if a guy wants to be more than friends with benefits?
A guy friend from college and I had always been friends with on and off benefits. We always remained friends and set each other up with formal dates, but never dated each other. Now that I've moved to the same city as him again, we've spent alot of time together, however always with other friends. In the midst of it all, I was going to try to hook him up with one of my friends only to find him pursuing me like he used to. Though we've fooled around many times, we recently had sex for the first time after a night out. I'm interested in him now more than friends, which has never really been the case previously. I think he feels the same way, but I'm scared that if I'm wrong, I risk our dynamic and friendship. Not sure how it turned into more serious feelings, but now I'm not sure how to figure out what his intentions are? It's not about the sex, although it was great...I realize the potential we have to make a strong couple and make each other happy.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
Let him know how you feel. Don't let it sit inside of you. This does have the potential of making things really bad but you have to look at the good side.