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What does it mean when she says she is confused?
Dating / 11:29 AM - Friday November 21, 2008

What does it mean when she says she is confused?

Hey what does it mean when the person you are in a relationship with says they are confused, and not sure they want to be in the relationship, what do females mean when they say this, can it really be taken at face value.

- Asked by miles42, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Consulting

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It means that, they are not ready for the next step, or what they think / want to be the next step.

You might want to get ready to pack your things, and find a better jane.

- Response by wootystyle, A Player, Male, 29-35, Artist / Musician / Writer

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i think it means they are unsure of what they want. or its a more polite way of saying i just don't want to be with you anymore :)

- Response by jojo914, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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It usually means they've found someone else...and don't want to look like the bad person as they dump you.

- Response by drumboi2, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65

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It means they are not sure they want to be in a relationship with YOU. When you are into shouldnt be that confused. Let this one go. If she's really into you..she'll stop being so confused.

- Response by sillygirl1980, An Engaged Girl, Female, 29-35, Los Angeles, Administrative

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As a female who has said it, I can clarify. It means you are in the beginning stages of over. SORRRRRRRY.

- Response by nicolegillenwater, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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A woman that is smitten with a man is not confused about wanting to be in a relationship with him. You're doing something to push her away. There's a good chance that she is already seeing someone else or at least has someone else in mind. The best thing you can do when a woman says that is to back off.

- Response by rooster1eye, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Las Vegas, Executive

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Miles42, say "bah-bye" to her! She is trying to dump you. She may already be seeing someone else and "she is confused" which of the many English words to use to get rid of you. I am convinced. Women are not often confused; we know if we love someone, it is not that difficult.

- Response by allaboutlove, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Executive

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just what everyone said here, hun. It's over. She's wants to move on.

- Response by girlpower08, A Sportif, Female, 36-45

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Probably means she is going to break up with you and needs to stall by saying she is confused, etc, blah blah, she is looking for how and what to say to you when she decides she is on to greener pastures.

- Response by dewey1978, A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Other Profession

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It's usually a polite way of saying that they don't want to be with you.

- Response by A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Cleveland, Administrative

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