When I was 16 I had my first real boyfriend, and he was my first, anyway, at one point I thought I was also pregnant, but I wasn't. I was 2 weeks late with my period, or longer, so you may not be pregnant. Try to stop worrying so much, cause that will only make it later. But since you are going to take a test, you will know for sure. If you aren't, well, thank God. LOL. If you are, it doesn't mean that you have to drop out of college if you decide to keep the baby. It isn't the end of everything for you. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, so I think you can manage to do college a little longer, and after you have the baby, stay off a while to recover and get daycare, or a babysitter. I am sure you have family and I am sure they would love to help so that you can better yourself for you child and self.
Now, about telling your boyfriend. Wait til you find out for sure. Then let him know. If he wants to help, then great. That will come in handy when you need money for daycare or babysitters, and with raising your baby. Trust me, I know it seems like your life is over, but it isn't. There are so many women and young ladies as yourself that are going to school and raising their children. I have three now, and I am planning on going back to school. I wish I had went when I finished school, but I hated school, and thought that it was a miracle that I made it to graduation. My parents didn't really say anything to me to make me want to go. They did my brothers, but not me. I don't know why, maybe if they had, I might have went, but I didn't. Anyway, back to you. You can do this. And if your boyfriend is willing to help, it will be easier. If not, don't worry. You can still do this.
Don't be mad at yourself or your boyfriend for this happening. Things like this happen. Like they say, everything happens for a reason. This is God showing you how strong you really are. A test to show you how strong you are.
Please, let me know how things are going with all of this.
Good Luck, and I hope things work out great for you.
- Response by summerlysnow
, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Home Maker