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Why does my boyfriend cum fast ...
Sex & Intimacy / 4:13 PM - Monday November 03, 2008

why does my boyfriend cum fast?

why does my boyfriend cum fast?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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Not enough practice. Practice....practice... .practice.

It should take longer the 3rd or 4th time that evening.

- Response by greenwind, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, Construction

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Slow him down..make him pace know when he's about to..push him out.

- Response by bikerchick1, A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Atlanta, Financial / Banking

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cause your SloW???
dunno? Speed it up!

- Response by pinknblu, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Because he's young and you get him really worked up! Can he go for round 2, 3 or 4? If so then there's nothing to worry about.

I've had that problem for a long time. You can help train him to last longer with the "start/stop" technique. Use your hands to make him cum but stop before he gets to the point of no return (have him tell you when to stop). Let him rest a bit and start again, stopping again before the PONR. Do that 10 times, 3 times a week and it'll help a lot. At least it did for me.

- Response by A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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I've been blessed. My man is like the Energizer bunny.

If he has a problem, he needs to learn what it feels like when he's about to cum. Then he needs to stop, and you go back to foreplay.

OR, the first time you have sex that night, expect it to be quick. You can go right to doing the deed. When he's done, you move onto foreplay. While he's pleasuring you, he'll start getting ready to go at it again, and hopefully it will last longer.

- Response by myndseye711, A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Managerial

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you get him so excited that he cant hold it would be the best case. Next he just cant figure out how to hold it, or he's not getting it often enough are other possibilities.

- Response by hoopsjunkie, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Indianapolis, Self-Employed

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have him masturbate before hand... or give him a handjob or blowjob before you get down to business it takes longer the second or third time around for him to reach orgasm

- Response by vixen1990, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Miami, Student

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Because he's young, and he CAN.

- Response by buffalothighs88, A Hippie Chick, Female, 56-65, Other Profession

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Because it's a COCK and a cock is DESIGNED to cum..that's it's function.

Men are described as Yang and Fire energy in Chinese medicine, women as water.

Guys especially at that age are veritable cum machines and men are so sexual oriented that a guy thinks of cumming all the time. He's likely getting too worked up mentally and too excited thinking about you or being with you.

If you have a hot body and look good naked, just looking at you and thinking about screwing you can almost make a man cum.

He has to practice withholding techniques by learning when to stop, then wait a few minutes to the urge to cum subsides, then starting again.

Also have him practice slow deep breathing at regular intervals or breath holding for several seconds, this often helps cool the fire of orgasm down enough for him to continue.

There are two acupressure points on the lower stomach for premature ejaculation, try googling them to find pictures of them.

If he still needs more, have him get the book "The Multi Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia.

Ladies can also get the similar book "The Multi Orgasmic Woman" by Manaween Chi... yes, they're both married authors.

- Response by richsifu, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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Because he is young, inexperienced, and doesn't know any better. After you've been together for awhile, try to slow him down. He needs to pay more attention to your sexual needs in the bedroom. (That's something else guys learn with age and experience.)

- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative

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