|Dating / 12:51 PM - Friday October 31, 2008|
The Annoying Wandering Eye of my Boyfriend...
Ive been dating my boyfriend for the last six months and I'm starting to notice his 'wandering eye' more and more. In the beginning of our relationship, his wandering eye didnt exists but now it seems like everyone who passes him catches his eye. I have even caught him holding me from behind to check someone out. I also noticed it becomes more frequent and bold after he has had a few beers and or if his friends are around. I even catch the occasional "gawk" at someone and I remain in disbelief that he is doing it right in front of my face.
- Asked by uhhohh, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Other Profession
OK - all I heard is "should I start checking out guys too"......*ahem* call me crazy, but you should be doing that anyway shouldn't you? I check out guys all the time. I'm not dead! Neither are you...or him. No harm in lokking dear.
Let's start with basics - do not play tit for tat. That is childish playground behavior. If this bothers you and you believe it is wrong for him to check out other women why would it be right for you to do the same with other men? You would be setting a very unhealthy pattern for any future you may have together.