Don't waste your time. Life is too much fun to be wondering. Ask him out yourself. Just do it in a safe way. Ask him to go to an outing where you two are going to be alone for a long time like hiking, taking a long walk, a long bike trip, etc. If he keeps going along and being with you all the time, it will eventually happen. If he pulls out, give up. He is either gay, in a relationship or crazy. And don't give it a name like "dating" or have a talk about it. Let it be whatever it is, simple and natural. No discussion is needed when you look into the eyes of someone that is also attracted to you. If it's not this guy then find the one. It will be a lot of fun but only if it's mutual. Moving along is hard but worth it!

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I don't know how long you've know this guy, but ask yourself this: is he worth it? Sure you're attracted to him and you like the attention he's giving you. But do you want it from someone who doesn't follow through?

I'm going to guess that since he's not too shy to flirt with you, he's not too shy to make the first move. If he really is interested, he would have talked to you on Weds (unless there are some details you left out as to why he couldn't), he would your plan the date, he would step it up. And as for his reaction to you, it was perfectly natural - you not giving him attention made him curious and people always want what they *think* they can't have.

Tell him you want him to be direct and you're not interested in playing games. If he doesn't change, you're wasting your time.

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