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The third one
the third one / Dating / 10:36 PM - Tuesday May 13, 2008
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A Thinker (Female, San Francisco, Who Cares?, Science / Engineering) asked:


What can a woman on the shy side do to impress a man so that he will ask her out for a third date? The first date is full of nerves so I feel more pressure to really make the second one meaningful and memorable and don't want to wreck my chances since I happen to like this guy a lot.


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A Creative (Female, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: nightingale226


The best advice is to just be yourself.......if you get nervous, just keep telling yourself that he is no different to talk to than any other friend......we tend to clam up from being nervous....you know what? Guys are just as nervous as we are....I have been told that by many male friends.....they get the same emotional jitters....good luck...just set your mind on having fun!

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A Thinker (Female, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

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Well, you should ask him to go somewhere with you for the 3rd date..I know you are shy..but he might just like you asking him..Then you will know how he feels about you too..

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A Father Figure (Male, Boston, 56-65, Retired) answered:

Screenname: coach33


Just be a good listener, don't talk too much, and try and relax
and just be yourself.

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A Cool Mom (Female, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

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To impress him, why don't you ask him out on the third date. If you feel comfortable, cook dinner for him and watch a movie. Or just take him to Chilis or Applebees. If you really like him, you could lose him by being too shy. So be careful for that not to happen.

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A Father Figure (Male, 66 or older, Retired) answered:

Screenname: dmncowboy


show intrest in the same things he is interested in be willing to talk about them and learn dont be a no it all find comnon ground

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