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What's the Problem? / Dating / 10:13 PM - Tuesday May 13, 2008
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A Thinker (Female, 22-25) asked:


I having going out with one guy since Oct. I have met his friends and family, we are always going out and spending time with each other plus we have good conversations and great chemistry but he still won't make a commitment what is his problem?


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A Creative (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: vixenlegs22


He is scared like most people to make a commitment

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A Thinker (Female, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: springishere


He is just not ready..The worst thing you could do is to pressure him..Dont even act like you want him to make a commitment..Then he will...lol!!

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A Thinker (Female, Washington, DC, 46-55, Transportation) answered:

Screenname: msadvise


You say commitment. That means marriage. Is that what you are seeking? Eighteen months is needed to really get to know the guy, for one. Now if you mean making your relationship exclusive, it could be he's not wanting to be serious and casually date and that includes meeting his family and friends. Again, sounds like he's not ready for a 'commitment' as I've defined it, nor an exclusive relationship. You're still young so don't rush things. And if you want to make things exclusive, tell him. If you need to know what the status of your whole dating deal, ASK! And if he won't and that is what you want, then time to move on. Otherwise, keep quite and enjoy what you have today.

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