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I'm beginning to think that I ...
untitled / Body & Self-Image / 9:37 PM - Tuesday May 13, 2008
(Female, 18-21) asked:


I'm beginning to think that I might be gay or at least bi. I mean, I only get excited and nervous, with ya know "butterflies in my stomach" when I'm around other girls. I've only gotten that feeling with one other guy, but multiple girls. And most of the girls I don't even know very well. It's weird cause I've never felt that way about a girl before, but now they're all I can think about. Does that make me gay or bi?



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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: pepperman46


only you know we can't tell.

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A Father Figure (Male, Boston, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: regnadkcin


I hope not. That would make *me* gay or bi, too. I feel that way all the time with my girl.

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A Creative (Female, Vancouver, 22-25, Student) answered:

Screenname: angeluscado


It's entirely possible, but the only real way to know is to flirt with girls and date them. If there's some attraction there, then it's definitely a possibility. The only way to know is to try, though. Good luck.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 22-25, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: dontknowitall34


you're young and in college

a lot of college girls experiment at this age

trust me, no one can satisfy you like a man

just kidding

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A Creative (Female, 22-25, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: mysticqt


Perhaps they intimidate you somehow, which makes you feel nervous.

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