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Food stamps
Food stamps / Race, Religion & Politics / 3:51 PM - Monday May 12, 2008
A Cool Mom (Female, 46-55, Teaching) asked:


Food stamps were "born" during the Great Depression.
Back then people paid for their food stamps...4 dollars would get you 6 dollars worth of food stamps.
Now days the paper coupons are gone and have been replaced by cards to swipe.
(and of course, people do not pay for their stamps any longer).

Here is my question...
Do you know someone who benefited (positively) from the food stamp program? (I'm talking about where the food stamps became a defense against hunger)?



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A Guy Critical (Male, Seattle, 46-55, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: bookman


I resemble that remark.

I went on food stamps while I was homeless. Not the entire 7 years, but about 6 months during the last 2 years, while I was going to school and looking for a job. They literally saved my life.

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A Thinker (Female, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: southjerseygirl


Yes, I did. When my children and I first ran away from their idiot father, he refused to pay the support order until they physically took the money from him. Between trying to house us and feed us, things were very, very tight. For about 3 months we used the food stamp card. Once he started paying support, and I begged a raise out of my boss, I called the office and told them I no longer needed them.

But, thank God they were there for us during those first few months. I have no shame about using them either. I needed them, and they helped me. Period.

Contrary to popular belief, everyone who has a need for temporary help isn't automatically a loser who lives their entire lives sucking off the system.

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A Married Girl (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:


Well... I know one woman from my church who's on government assistance. She's a full-time student, graduating this month but two kids, each from different fathers. The assistance has made a huge difference in her life. She's very ADHD (I get tired if I am around her more than an hour), her eldest has asperger's and her younger child is suspected to have some form of attention deficit. This woman will get a good job and be better equipped to take care of herself and her kids. But... I don't really agree with much of her lifestyle, I think she buys things she doesn't need (I think if you have to get gov't assistance, you shouldn't go out partying with the cash you do have).

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Cleveland, 36-45, Executive) answered:

Screenname: hubbyochris


The Program that really works is WIC, for women with infants and children. It dictates a gallon of milk, a dozen eggs, etc. Nearly impossible to corrupt.

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: tacobell


Most people that I know that are using food stamps are also able to purchase beer and cigarettes. I would say that no I don't know anyone that has food stamps that would go hungry with out them. Food stamps should be for people that really need them and couldn't eat without them.

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A Cool Mom (Female, Cincinnati, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: luckyinkentucky


I know a lot of people who benefit from them. All you hear are the scam stories but the reality is, they supplement many people each month that are just trying to work and support their kids and need a little help.

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A Thinker (Female, Dallas, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: kdtxchic30


Actually yes, I know of a few families that without this supplement they would not be able to provide adequate nutrition for their children and family. Food stamps are not meant to be able to meet all of your family's "food" needs, but to supplement what you can not afford.

I have never personally used them, but again I know those who have and it really is a great program. Of course with every gov't program there is abuse, but this is one defense against hunger in the U.S.

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A Thinker (Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: barbb


I know several families that would not have made it witout the food stamp program.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Houston, 22-25, Technical) answered:

Screenname: mritguy


My mom had the card for a few years when I was 10-13. It certainly put food on the table.

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A Thinker (Female, Chicago, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: cubbiegal


15 years ago, I had to go on food stamps for 2 months. I paid into the system and was glad it was there when I was in desperate need. Thank goodness that need was for only 2 months.

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 46-55, Retired) answered:

Screenname: maryea


I have a friend who became homeless due to drug addiction. She received food stamps during this time as well as all during her treatment for addiction. This was a good thing for her and helped her to focus on recovery. Once she was on her feet and able to work, she no longer needed the food stamps.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Pittsburgh, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: bigcurt


A lot of people abuse the system but I have known familys who really needed it to survive as well

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: birdland


I know many individuals who receive disability benefits and if it were not for the small amount of monthly food stamps they would suffer from hunger. Of course there are those who abuse them but many more benefit. (that's the case with anything)

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An Alternative Girl (Female, Dallas, 22-25, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: sugartits2000


I am not on food stamps but when I was little my mom was and I have to say it really did help. She only used it for food and now that I look back I am not sure how we would have eaten. I am on WIC now and yes that is a life saver they pay for 130.00 worth of formula, 2 dozen eggs, 4 1/5 gal of milk... juice, cereal for me and my son & 2 lbs of cheese. I have to say I don't feel bad for taking it either because I pay me taxes and If it weren't for my son I wouldn't even want any assistance.


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A Life of the Party (Female, Indianapolis, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: kmf1


I broke my leg in Dec and got fired from my job. I applied and got food stamps for 3 months and without them I would have starved. Then they cut them off cuz I started getting unemployment which was being contested because I made "too much money $275 a week"...Now I am back to eating mac and cheese for every meal and a coke for energy. And by the way, even on my crutches, I was given the "look" by the cashier and I gave it right back.....

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A Creative (Female, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: nightingale226


Yes, I know someone that lives on less than $800.00 a month due to an injury, unrelated to work. Cannot live a normal life due to the injuries. She receives $73.00 a MONTH to eat on....it cost that much a moth to feed a large dog. I suppose there are ways that some people abuse the system, but, I still don't know how anyone can eat on $73.00 a month...and the only other income is disability. How can someone work for 40 years of their life helping others yet be put in a position like this due to no fault of her own?

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A Cool Mom (Female, 18-21, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: brisbay


I have never had or known any one whose had food stamps BUT i was on WIC for the first 3 months of my sons life.
I was out of a job and my s/o's paycheck alone just wasnt cuttin it.
After the first 3 months (they give you a 3 month supply at a time) i had found a job and no longer needed it, but if it wasnt for WIC, and all the free formula we would have been screwed since i cant breast feed.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: patresi


Obama's mother did. She was poor, abandoned by her husband so she had to rely upon them. Hopefully, he'll always know what it was like to use them so he'll be good to the poor and find new ways to take them off of food stamps.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: concorbp


I don't know. When I hit the skids I would get a box of food from a church every week and there where others there getting food that weren’t on food stamps either. If somewhere on food stamps I would say they deserved them because getting a box of food at a church was kind of weird.
On the other hand I have known and do know people that abuse the welfare system with aplomb. They get free housing, medical, dental, food stamps, job training, (which they have no intention of doing) just everything. And you know what? It’s all perfectly legal; learn how to work the system and you can suck the teat of mother America for the rest or your life too.


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A Career Woman (Female, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: sphere


I thought the Food stamp program came to be during JFK's term?
I believe just like any kind of program there will be abuse of the system but there are people who live paycheck to paycheck and there dead beat Dads out there who abandon their families and so there you go!

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A Father Figure (Male, New Orleans, 56-65, Transportation) answered:

Screenname: hotair


several thousand of us from the greater New Orleans area benefited greatly after Katrina from the food stamp program, some left that night with just a hand full of clothes and food.
when some of the banks cut off the credit and debit cards they make the difference weather your kids got fed or not.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: unclebilly


Yes. They needed it for a short time and moved on. I worked my way through college and was on food stamps for a while. It made a huge difference. I still had to save for certain foods like orange juice. It helped my grades too. It was embarrassing and difficult but I really needed it to survive.

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A Guy Critical (Male, Milwaukee, 66 or older, Retired) answered:

Screenname: rekkonball


yes I do know someone who benefited for a time... my spouse was a single parent and for her times were tough. The family attorney got her hooked up with food stamps and she was able to survive a number of years on them. Now here is the kicker... her ex failed to fulfill his obligation under court order to furnish child support way back then. Out of the blue, the state informed her that she had CS coming and immediately began forwarding monthly checks on her behalf, from the ex. After a couple of years, they stopped, but the ex continues to pay CS. Why would that happen? As part of recieving food stamps, the state kept track of all that were sent, and the agreement she signed was that should there be recompense for the ex's failure to pay, then that value would be taken from the CS.

A lot of this doesn't make much sense to me. Yes I can play it out the way it is done and see the justification for each move. I just would not have done it that way. (sigh)

rekkonball

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A Guy Critical (Male, Chicago, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: louie76


The whole social security system is being abused. My brother was injured on a job at a steel mill. During the time of his rehab he had a heart attack. So what do they do ... Cut him off because he missed rehab. He is now on disability, which took him 8 years to get. In that time he depleted his whole life savings, but with the help of family managed to hold on to his house. Then the mill where he worked went bankrupt and he recovered nothing from them. Now he lives on a fixed income of 1350.00 dollars a month. So, I guess my answer would be yes.

On the other side of the coin, I have neighbors who are both on SS and actually divorced so they could receive higher benefits.
Both of them do have disabilities, but I know for a fact that they work cash jobs for extra income. Not only are they getting our tax dollars, they are also earning money with out paying taxes on it. To many people want a free ride these days. Sorry to ramble on. You just hit a sore spot with me. There are just so many things wrong with the current system and the ones who are paying are the ones who need it most!

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A Trendsetter (Female, 22-25, Teaching) answered:

Screenname: sexybearcub7377


My sister is a single mother with four children...she once owned a house with her then husband who left her for another women out of the blue right after her forth child was born. she was denied food stamps bc she made too much money. every month she has to chose between food and rent so every other month she is late on rent...its been this way for almost 3 years... she only makes 16-1700 a month, her ex pays child support when he feels like it. I bought a house for my sister (i once a had perfect credit) and it foreclosed bc she couldnt afford to both feed her kids and pay the morgage...I now am on disability (covered by no fault insurance-denied disability benefits) due to a drunk driver hitting me, and I am told I make too much money to recieve any assistance, before the accident I made 1300 a month and now I am only bringing home about 700 or so (still too much to receive food stamps)...mean while the guy next door to my mothers house is living off of section 8, food stamps, and has two brand new cars(for him and his wife) his 2 sons also a brand new car and a farely new used car...tell me how unfair this is!!!

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A Thinker (Female, Denver, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: roniroca


Yes, my mother received Food Stamps when we were kids. We were so embarassed by them. It meant poverty. It was bad enough for the kids to guess you were poor, but to know when mom paid for groceries at the store and classmates happened to be at the store too... However, 3 kids received $150.00 per month of Welfare money, and $60.00 per month of Food Stamps. The welfare was to pay for our rent, clothes, shoes, school supplies, etc. We never went out to eat, we never went to McDonalds or Taco Bell, much less restaurants. We had to make our shoes last until we outgrew them. We polished them and cleaned them shiny. God Blessed us with a mother who could cook the most wonderful food. From homemade tortillas, to handmade dresses, to washing our clothes with a scrub board when Maytag washers existed. So yes we did benefit from them and there was never enough for 3 growning kids. I never put my kids through this, I struggled to work and never went on ADC for my kids. Of course having to work has not allowed me the time and the homemade gifts my mother gave us.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 18-21, Retail) answered:

Screenname: timewilltell08


Yes. My family. There were times when we were waiting for our stamps to come in or be re-approved and all we had to eat was rice. My mother and I get 400 a month for me, her, and my step-dad.

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A Life of the Party (Male, 36-45, Technical) answered:

Screenname: jeepndude


When I was growing up, my dad was not there and never paid child support. My mom often worked 2 jobs to make ends meet and that wasn't enough sometimes to feed 3 kids. When she was in her 30's she decided to go back to school to get a real education and thus get a better paying job. For the 2 years she was in school she worked part-time and received welfare assistance, food stamps, etc.. After graduating nursing school, she went on to make far more money working a single job than she ever did before and of course no longer needed the assistance.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, St.Louis, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: leewiser


I don't know of food stamps, but my first step-fathers family used to get USDA commodities (i.e. Government cheese). There were 14 kids in their family.

The commodities came in "generic" wrappings; white labels with plain black lettering.

I don't know if they did or did not get food stamps, but I can tell you that if they didn't kill or catch something that they didn't eat. They were full-blooded Cherokee Indian (the mom and the dad grew-up on the reservation and left it when they got married) and were used to living off the land.

Being a "city-boy", I wasn't much accustom to eating everything that walked, crawled, or hadn't been dead for three days, so Grandma Asher opened allot of those "white labeled" cans for me.

It the 80's, when "generic" brands in the grocery store became all the rage... I had no interest in them at all. All I could see was those "white labeled" cans that Grandma Asher opened.

By the way, that Government cheese is some of the best that you'll ever eat. The white cheddar is aged for over 60 months...

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A Mr. Married Guy (Male, 36-45, Food Service) answered:

Screenname: frycook


no

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