My boyfriend is in the army. He is out of state (oregon) right now at training. But he said we would be able to talk. He was supposed to call me Sunday May 4th. But he didn't. Instead I get a text message saying his friends got him drunk again at 1 am. Then I sent a text saying call me. But he doesn't. Then at 3 am he sends another text saying Take me to breakfast. Which I can't of course. Then Monday, I try calling him and no answer. Throughout the week I leave several messages, and no replies back. So now Friday May 9th he flew to Vermont for another 2 weeks training. I tried calling again and no answer. So I asked a friend of mine to call him (friend of his too) to see if he will call her back or answer her call. HE calls her back on Saturday and answers her questions regarding her bf who is in Iraq right now. He told me when he goes to Vermont there will be no cell service, because he will be in the mountains living in tents training. But I'm thinking they had classroom instruction first and that's why he was able to call my friend back. Which hurt my feelings. A little background, I do call if I can't get in touch with him. I freak out. But this was the worse I have been. He will be going to Iraq in late July. And he often tells me that I will not be able to handle it.......because there he will not know when he can email or call. BUT also since he has been gone he has called every day and cammed with me on the computer. This is the first time he is ignoring me. So my question is......(1) Is he not calling because he is pissed with my constant calling and is teaching me a lesson to be patient OR (2) Is he dumping me completely and just never going to call me back? We have been together for 1-1/2 yrs. HE knows me and must know that I'm freaking out and still not calling or texting me to say I'm mad or whatever. Now I'm pretty sure that they are in the mountains. I just want to know will he call at the end of his training on May 23rd? This is the longest we have gone without talking.