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How do you look for something real when you'rebusy
how do you look for something real when you'rebusy / Dating / 9:34 PM - Sunday May 11, 2008
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(Female, 22-25) asked:


i am curious..... what kind of qualities do men/women (who work 70-90 hours in a week, earn highly wages, and is overall well-rounded in terms of personality and looks) look for in a potential SO/gf-bf/wife-husband? And keeping in mind that the person wants true love in their conquest.

How do you find that person without that much time and with such a reputation?


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A Father Figure (Male, 36-45, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: curadvent


They tend to look for people who can accept them for who they are and what they do. They aren't the people you'll find in the bar every Friday and Saturday night, but they will go out there occasionally.

Generally, they tend to meet people while they work. Whether it be a charity function, and assistant at work, or just someone they bump into.

But most have had bad experiences mixing relationships and their chosen lifestyle. Most may not engage when given the opportunity to meet someone.

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A Thinker (Female, Washington, DC, 46-55, Transportation) answered:

Screenname: msadvise


That person to be found needs to be understanding, self confident, independent, trusting and accepting of the type A personality, that is if they too are not an type A personality.

And those who devote that much time toward work and don't have the time to actually search usually enlist a dating service to find a match for them. And that service is the big $$$ type where it is personal introductions, not on-line matches, chats and meets.

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A Cool Mom (Female, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: ttlicious


Try plenty of fish dot com...its free and you can get to know some one via internet first before you meet...

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A Thinker (Female, 56-65, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: isthistrue


possibly an internet dating site. You might try e-harmony. Possibly church. I know your work schedule probably leaves little time for church. Could you possibly cut down your work hrs? A person has to be available to date.
During my first years of college I worked every Friday and Saturday night. I had low self esteem, I thought who would want to date me anyone. Now I have probable gone to the opposite extreme. I think to know me is to love me.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Detroit, 46-55, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: jwpoc


you dont...and quit living in Oz...

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