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To be or not to be..
To be or not to be.. / Dating / 10:17 PM - Saturday May 10, 2008
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A Guy Critical (Male, 29-35, Military) asked:


Ladies, when is it ok for a guy NOT to be a gentleman?

Update: May 10, 2008.
There are still gentlemen in the world, unfortunately they get stepped on far too often and turn into @$$holes!


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A Thinker (Female, New York, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: zahararica


Oh, don't pretend like you don't know!! Cheeky monkey...

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A Hippie Chick (Female, San Francisco, 36-45, Technical) answered:

Screenname: lavender


during sex

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A Married Girl (Female, 29-35, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: divatoonami


when you ask him to pund the fu*king shit out of you...

my my my...how ladylike I am...today!

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: jenny12


When defending someone else against an ass.

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A Thinker (Female, 66 or older, Retired) answered:

Screenname: shrinkess


When the lady asks him not to be.

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A Thinker (Female, Philadelphia, Who Cares?, Body Work) answered:

Screenname: myndseye711


divatoonami is the woman!!!
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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: preciousangel


When he's an animal in the bedroom..Opps did I say that! it wasn't me! lol lol lol

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Retired) answered:

Screenname: ivoryfresh


I think being a gentleman is the most wonderful thing a man can be... unfortuantely too many women don't appreciate what is offered to them.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 18-21, Retail) answered:

Screenname: timewilltell08


In the bedroom most of the time

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A Thinker (Female, Minneapolis, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: ellekassia26


I agree with a couple posts on here. I think you should always be a gentleman. Even if it comes to things in bed a woman and a man can still be descent or considered a lady and a gent. If you love the person you are with behind doors and share that special makin love type thing, that is being a gentleman. (probably if you make it all about her, too. lol)
I also agree there are hardly any left out there. Its sad because I am looking for one and yes, the assholes step in and f it all up for me. and you.
Elle

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A Career Woman (Female, San Diego, 26-28, Military) answered:

Screenname: tigerlily123


when she deserves to be slapped for being stupid

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A Thinker (Female, Baltimore, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: jpm51


When he is not around me.

I do still demand some semblance of respect in bed......like if I ask you to stop something that is hurting me, a man needs to be a gentleman and stop.......or suffer the consequences afterwards which may not be too ladylike from me (smile)

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A Thinker (Female, Providence, Who Cares?, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: ladywisteria


Umm ... well ... you know what I mean!

MUAH!!!

;)

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A Life of the Party (Female, Atlanta, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: bikerchick1


Occasionally in bed (when I'm not being a lady)...that's all.

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A Thinker (Female, Minneapolis, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: springishere


When he is out with the guys!!!

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 36-45, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: easyjolene


When he's with the guys.
;)

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: pepperman46


he has to always be a gentleman.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, Phoenix, 26-28, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: shygirl1979


Gentleman ?
Pray tell me where is any because i don't even remember last time i met one.
But i guess in bedroom : )
after we have been in relationships long enough
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A Life of the Party (Female, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: watbuttondoipush


When your woman wants you to behave otherwise....she will tell you.

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A Creative (Female, 22-25, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: ranchdoritos


why would i NOT want him to be a gentleman? I guess when standing up for me-but then again-thats being a gentleman. Is this a trick question? I'm confused.

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: tacobell


I think men should always be a gentleman. You can go crazy in the bedroom and still be a gentleman. It's hard to find a gentleman these days. We actually need more gentleman in this world. I miss the old days when men opened the door for you, pulled your chair out for you and treated you with the respect that we all deserve.

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A Career Woman (Female, Las Vegas, Who Cares?, Celebrity) answered:

Screenname: luckycowgirl


in the bedroom..

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 29-35, Teaching) answered:

Screenname: electragold21


The "got stepped on and turned into an @$$hole" excuse doesn't wash, really.

If you really ARE a gentleman, nothing will stop you from being one--you wouldn't let another person do that to you.

If you are NOT really a gentleman, you will look for any excuse to deviate from the good path. ;)

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