|Sex & Intimacy / 1:04 AM - Thursday May 08, 2008|
wives with no interest in sex anymore
Why do a lot of wives stop wanting to have sex after marriage? I am a (FEMALE) counselor and I hear this problem over and over again when dealing with mainly over 40 longtime married male clients in my practice. I personally as well as my girlfriends have quite a high sex drive, especially in a committed relationship, so I can't see why this happens to so many women time and time again. They stop wanting or needing sex and the men get miserable from lack of it, and that leads the men to cheat and other things. But WHY do so many women get this way after a few years of marriage - or sooner? I cannot relate at all. And most of these husbands are very attractive, have money, good jobs, are responsible, good dads, etc.
- Asked by vegasdreamr0406, An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45, Las Vegas, Self-Employed
When he has lost the ability to perform. I have lost the want. I am not there only to get him off. He is and should be there for me also. After so many years we just don't meld. So yes I have stopped wanting sex from my husband, as I know it ain't worth it! I don't owe him!