|Dating / 9:55 AM - Thursday February 28, 2008|
Boyfriend still wont say I love you after 2 years
have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. I have told him I love him many times but he will not reciprocate these words. We have had a conversation about this and he honestly told me that he feels like he went too fast in his last relationship and doesnt want to make that same mistake again. He's never been good at sharing his feelings through word but does so through actions. His actions say that he does love me (hes very attentive to my needs, I know all his family and friends and am very close to many of them, we practically live together at this point) but he still wont speak those 3 little words. I dont know why this is bothering me so much becasue deep down inside I know he loves me but just to hear those 3 little words to confirm it all would mean the world to me. What should I do? Should I keep on the same way I have been in hopes that one day he says it? Should this be such a big deal? He doesnt treat me bad and we've been through alot together... Please help!!
- Asked by radiochicka, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Managerial
Don't push him, You got what you wanted to here out of him, and he is treating you good. Just let him take the time he needs. You push him, you might lose him all together! If you know he loves you, work with that and enjoy him. Best wishes.