|Married Life / 1:30 PM - Monday October 01, 2007|
Lately my husband has been being a real ass. We spent a day together the over the weekend and it seemed like all he did was pick me apart. Everything that I do that bugs him he told me about which made me feel like he thinks I'm really stupid. Then he went on to tell me what he didn't like about the way I look. I'm no super model by any means but I'm not a dog either. I asked him what his problem was since I don't do things like that to him and he said"I'm just being honest" Now I'm like WTF! Does he even like me anymore? I gave him the cold shoulder all last night and went to bed early. This month is our 9 years anniversary and he has never treaded me like this before. Is this how guys act after a while? Like a 9 year ich or something?
- Asked by spiceylibra, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Kansas City, Administrative
Honestly, this sound like the kind of thing that happens when two people are spending way too much time together. I suggest you take a trip sans hubbie.
I don't think that is love. Love doesn't hurt. You need to make yourself happy. I feel real bad for you. I'll be praying for you. We as woman always put ourselves second. But at the end of the day we have to make choices that we will be able to live with.