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Sex & Intimacy / 2:50 AM - Friday September 14, 2007

help me with this one

Has anyone been involved with a guy that all he cared about is sex. most people like sex but not when you have a male that wants sex all the time non stop i wonder if he is a sex addict and is this normal.

My boyfriend who is 50 and so am i he seems to want sex all the time. we dont just have it once in one session but 2 or three times this happens everytime i see him we tend to be at it for 3 or 4 hours doing all sorts of things he does satisfy me

He is a good lover but i cant keep up to him. My body is no longer the same for these highly sexual sessions i get sore afterwards and when i refuse he gets upset and goes on about being rejected this is a concern.

Enough is enough its not that he doesnt get any we just about have sex everytime i see him. I have a reasonably high drive and i enjoy sex but this beats the cake.

I have tried to explain to him that i dont always want sex and i am starting to get bitter not to menton sore and i have explained this to him. it seem he has to have it continus i think he is a sex addict or something.

I have had boyfriends before but not as bad as this he is just not happy just cuddleing without sex. He is very affectionate when we have sex and we cuddle a lot still but why cant we just cuddle and give sex a miss once in a while its like he is obscessed with it.

Has anybody been with a male or a female like this i know its a odd question and how have you felt

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Technical

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Wonder if hes taking something
and is going through that phase of "feeling young" again?

Talk to him.


- Response by carolynspoonire, A Rebel, Female, 46-55, Philadelphia, Medical / Dental

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Me and my s/o have both got very high sex drives and that behavior is normal and fine with us..but in the case of you and one wants so much more than the other you must compremise.

- Response by swemur1, A Creative, Female, 36-45, New York

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He sounds like my bf. Well our sessions don't take 3-4 hrs thank god but about 1-2 hrs and he usually wants to do it 2 or 3 times in a row, just taking a short smoking break in between. He has a high sex drive. I was surprised too at first but now I realise that I'm just a lucky girl to have him. Could you maybe tell him that 1 hr is enough for you?

- Response by A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Internet / New Media

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It sounds like he is using something. Viagara will do that to you. He has no control over his erection and when he gets it he can't stop until he's or his penis is satisfy. Basically when the high goes down. He should take something like Cialis, it only takes effect when the male is ready to have sex. With the V pill you don't know how long he has had the erection before he's gotten to you. You should talk to him. This will effect you guys sexual intimacy and connection. I'm sure you don't want that.

- Response by chemengin, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Science / Engineering

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