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Help I need a Orgasim without toys
Sex & Intimacy / 12:27 AM - Tuesday August 21, 2007

Help I need a Orgasim without toys

Hello all I have a problem. I never had an Orgasim till i was 23 and by that time i had 3 children. I have to use toys my husband helps as well. I really want to learn how to have one without the toys and so fourth and just have one natural with my husband. Please HELP

- Asked by A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Home Maker

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You know what worked for me, when I was young I abstained, for a long while, and son of a gun, during intercourse pop there she was.

- Response by A Career Woman, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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If you're serious, here's a helpful trick (no pun intended):

If on your back, place a pillow beneath your hips, which tilts your hips upward and allows greater depth penetration. Also, try to massage your clitoris while he's in the act, starting on the side and working your way up to the tip of the clitoris (lubricants help jump start things, but don't use a lot). This may not only turn you on, but your hubby with be turned on by watching you.

Also, finally, turn on your inner sex kitten. Men respond to confirmation that they are hitting the kitty right, so enjoy the fact that he is watching you and if it feels good, tell him so verbally and with body language. That positive feedback is going to drive him to damn near break his own back to please you.

- Response by mephyme, A Sportif, Female, 36-45, Dallas, Who Cares?

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Go slowly. Take the day. Drink a little, enjoy each other. Slowly...slowly until you finally hit bed around 11:00.
The important thing is to not make it a deal. Relax. Allow him to relax. Perhaps it's simply freaking you out. Don't think of anything except the way it feels. You'll make it.

- Response by righter439, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Antonio, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Are you saying the only way you have one is with toys? not oral either? Then something seems amiss! If you can have one with toys and not with your husband why? not masterbation without toys? You know you can ,but yet you're unable I'm at aloss!

- Response by swemur1, A Creative, Female, 36-45, New York

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Tip... Toys are fine, but the more you use them the more dependent you become on them. Think about it.

- Response by ivoryfresh, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Retired

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