|Sex & Intimacy / 2:11 PM - Monday January 15, 2007|
Does he just want a fuck buddy?
Last spring I started dating this guy and it ended within a month... it was a great month and seemed longer than that because we really connect with each other. For reasons that didn't make sense, he said we should just be friends. After that I would send him messages every couple months to see how he was. He'd respond back, but never initiated anything. Recently he texted me and asked me to come over at 2am. I went over, we messed around, but I told him we couldn't have sex... however the end result was that we did. Somewhere in the middle of that, he said we should do this more often, be fuck buddies. I told him no. Here's what I don't understand. He still wanted to please me during all of this, he still held my hand on the way upstairs... during sex and on the way out. At another time I said, I am not going to be your booty call and his response was you're not, we're friends. However I think a lot of it is lip service. The question is how can I tell if all he wants is sex, or does he at least consider me a friend. He hasn't asked me to hang out since he said we should just be friends, but now he's initiating this... that is sex and not hanging out. Is the answer that clear even though he was sweet to me while I was there?
- Asked by Female, 22-25
its obvious he wants a fuck buddy believe me i date this guy n he did the same call me at 3 or 4 in da morning almost everyday n we stoped for like 2 weeks n he is doing it again he will make up things like we friends n i just want to plz u n shit