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Will he want me back now?
Dating / 8:41 AM - Wednesday November 22, 2006

Will he want me back now?

My b/f and i broke up after five years (cheating on me) anyway i pretty much begged him back, yesterday i told him i didn't want him back anymore, My friends tell me ... Once you tell them that they will want you back is this true?
He told me he wasn't ready to come back, and i answered screw your not ready to come back i don't want you back. Why would him want to come back now, he hasn't said that but that's the way it goes from what i've been told.

- Asked by Female, 46-55

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Why the hell would you want his cheating ass back.Count your lucky stars that he is out of your life!!! Find someone that wants you.... "ONLY YOU" !!!!

- Response by honeywillow, A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Edmonton, Who Cares?

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Do me a favor. Take a deep breath, and repeat after me......who needs this shit? I am too good to put up with his stupid ass, and I will not waste one more second on him. Thank goodness I don't have to buy him anything for Christmas now! Whew!

I KNOW you're not working tomorrow, so call your girls, put on your highest heels, and an outfit that you know you're a knock out in, and hit the town. It couldn't be a better night.

- Response by muffincakes, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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He cheated on you and all of the stuff that goes along with that, as well as his luke-warm response to your willingness to forgive really says that you're just not that important to him and that you two just are not compatible. I think you should focus on figuring out why someone that seemingly holds you in such low regard is so important to you first. Once you get a handle on why you're making that choice you can begin to move on and finding someone that you are compatible with.

- Response by butch007, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Philadelphia, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Why do you want him? He cheated, and told you he doesn't want you. He sure doesn't sound like much of a companion.

- Response by trawna2, A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45, Toronto, Other Profession

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Ok, look-you broke up for a reason. Why is it that you are begging for more of him after he cheated on you? shouldn't he be begging for forgiveness? Please reconsider-cheaters are slime and you deserve better!

- Response by mskitty12345, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Indianapolis, Science / Engineering

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It's been my experience that they usually don't come back...no matter how badly you want them back.

- Response by songstress, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed

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He cheated on you. Why would you want him back in the first place? And if you've come to your senses and realized that you don't want him back after all, why do you even care what he wants to do at this point?


- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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YOU DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF
HE HAS CHEATED ONCE AND HE WILL AGAIN IF YOU THINK HE WON'T YOU ARE KIDDIN YOURSELF
THESE MEN HAVE NO RESPECT FOR WOMEN
SO WHY DO YOU THINK YOU NEED HIM ANYWAY?
YOU NEED TO GET OUT AND FIND A REAL MAN ONE WHO TRUELY LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU AND WON'T CHANGE ON YOU LIKE THIS JERK
YOU DESERVE BETTER AND YOU KNOW IT AND SO DO YOUR FRIENDS JUST REMEMBER THAT OK!

- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45, Newark, Medical / Dental

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