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Break time Over
Break time Over / Dating / 9:55 AM - Saturday October 14, 2006
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(Female, 29-35) asked:


If you and your b/f are on a "break", how do you go back to non-break status? How do you know, if your ready or his is ready? It took me awhile to figure out the break idea, now how do you undo the break...
For us, we never really, stopped talking, etc. We still talk everyday. Nothing, has changed on this break, expet there are no more "I love you" and we don't visit each others homes. Like I said, we still talk everyday, every evening, and have lunch and breaks at work together.
I don't understand.
But I want nothing more then to end this break, but how do I go about it?
HELP...

Update: October 14, 2006.
we dated for a year,July 05 - Aug '06- never argeed, never even had a disagrement. If was a misunderstand, sometihng stupid, that sent us to this "break". It's only been about a month we've been on this break. End of Aug. He just called, he had to work today. Just to say, Hi and nothing much more. Hmm...


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A Cool Mom (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

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I think you should just be very open with him. When you are talking, ask him. "so, how are you feeling about things now that we've had a break? do you think you want to try it again, or should we start dating others?" But be prepared that he may opt for the dating others. The way it is right now is unfair to you if you are wanting more out of the relationship. He gets your time and attention and the comfort of having you around, but you are stuck in limbo. And you deserve more.

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A Thinker (Female, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

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This is the only answer I can give you... Ask him.

It sounds to me like he's still there for you. I think all you would have to do is make that first move.

GOOD LUCK!

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A Rebel (Male, Stuttgart, 22-25, Student) answered:

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u have to be honest. HELLO! just tell him u want to end the break and u dont understand y u should keep it like this. and if he does then u can move on. simple-.

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