I have a child support question...I am supposed to receive child support....it's a pittance may I say and after nearly 15 years it still doesn't come regularily. For those of you who are supposed to pay support, and feel free to answer this puppy anonymously, because I'd truly love to hear your responses....why on earth does someone not pay support when their finances are fine and it's a mere $200 a month? Is it because you think she doesn't deserve it? I used to get told by him all the time that I would just go to the bar with it (as if I ever did) when I was single, and it seemed to be justifying to him....tho untrue....but what can be the reason now? He doesn't think I need it, or he feels he shouldn't have to pay? If I didn't pay my power bill regularily it would get cut off....same for the rest too, why should child support be any different?

Update: June 16, 2006.
I just wish to addendum drected to anonymous...I will not give you a poor rating because I asked for honesty here and you obviously have given it....I will say that without knowing, you assumed we were a family and I destroyed it. I was a teenager, and we never married due to cultural differences, his family wouldn't allow it. He has never remarried or had other children, and we had only one. Our relationship was one of sweet and young love, and he is bitter that I left him after he gave me an std from cheating on me. His family supported him being with others of their culture, not me. I put myself through school and remarried years later. I supported myself and my daughter, sometimes going without basics such as food just to be sure there was a plate in front of her. your obvious bitterness tellsme you probably have abandoned your children too, which is sad because you will lose in the long run I assure you, they will be bitter only towards you.....oh, and we need power to live you dumabass