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I need dating advice, just now ...
untitled / Dating / 5:19 PM - Tuesday January 31, 2006
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(Female, 26-28) asked:


I need dating advice, just now getting back in the dating world after a 7 year marriage and i feel like im in another world. I got married when I was young and dont know how to date as an adult. That sounds really dunb, but its true. Any advice would help.


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A Thinker (Female, Paris, Who Cares?, Student) answered:

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Practice. Don't be afraid to go out with guys casually you're not that interested in just to get the hang of talking to guys in a date setting again. You may have some wierd moments, but you'll work out the kinks and be ready when you meet someone that really interests you. Cheers!

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A Guy Critical (Male, Los Angeles, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

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Take it slow. Make sure your ready for a relationship if you decide to get into one. Your gut will let you know how ready you are as the dates progress. Don't just jump into the first relationship that presents itself. As time passes you'll get back into the swing of things again and it will continue to get easier and feel more natural. The first few dates may be a little overwhelming but it's just a part of the recovery/move on process. Take things slow at first and just trust your instincts, they'll serve you well. Good luck.

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A Thinker (Female, Tampa, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

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Dating as an adult is alot different than as a teen. Where is the parents with the curfew ? lol I would keep the dating as going out on dates not inviting the men in to watch videos and tv as some of us single parents got stuck in the routine as it was easier . Keep the first dates casual so you feel comfortable and have a time you have to be home in advance . The man should pick you up at the door and walk you to the door after dates...respect in the beginning. Keep your dating separate from your children until you become serious and exclusive with one man. Forget you war stories about bad divorces instead enjoy the date and get to know the man. Bring a cell phone so that the children can call you in an emergency and pick a reliable sitter to stay with them that can be counted on to supervise them so you can be comfortable on the date. Last but not least smile and get out there . You haven't forgotten how to date and it will come back to you. good luck Rosey

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A Guy Critical (Male, Baltimore, 36-45) answered:


If your in the mid-atlantic region of the east coast, drop me a line and I'll date you :-).

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