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Humiliated
Dating / 11:01 PM - Monday April 16, 2007

Humiliated

Oh god, i just had to drunk dial him one more time. Why do I do this to myself, he obviously doesn't like me (exbf), he obviously doesn't want me to call so why oh god why do I feel it necessary to contact him??? I just want to crawl into a cave and hide for the rest of my life, or at least hopefully he will forget my name and that I exist. Why do I do this to myself?

- Asked by A Creative, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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It's ok. Everyone, after a few drinks, thinks they can dance like a star and thinks deep down inside their ex really wants them to call them at 3am. It's happened to everyone. Don't feel humiliated. Chin up and move on. Don't be ashamed that you did it and don't let your ex think that you need him (even though you think you do).

- Response by kungfudewd, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Financial / Banking

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I have done the same thing enough times to not have an answer as to why you have to do this.
I am just as confused on the motivation because it is always depressing and embarrassing.
With that said... Delete his number from your cell phone & any thing else you have it saved in!!! Yes you probably have it memorized but in that time it takes you to dial it you stand a better chance of talking some sense into yourself!

This too shall pass and good luck!

- Response by lee37, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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Don't drink, problem solved. Do drink and problem will stay, just that simple.

- Response by william45, A Career Man, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Teaching

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young lady!!!!! you need to move on, but before you can do this, you need to seek professional help.....I suggest u start with a counselor that you can share your feelings with....you are young enough to look forward to the whole rest of your life, no ex bf is worth this torture to yourself.......move on sweetie....

- Response by pammie, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Home Maker

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i dont know that he will forget ur name or taht u exist, but if u keep drunk dialing him, he might jus get a restraining order against u!

- Response by lulu0101, A Life of the Party, Female, 22-25, Indianapolis, Medical / Dental

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Cause you got drunk IMO

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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Don't feel bad, you just don't want it to be over, you're not ready to let go. My BF broke up w/ me 6 mos ago and I still sleep with his picture under my pillow. How lame is that , and I'm 47 yrs old !!! I've called his house when I knew he was at work, just to hear his voice on his machine. Really all that does is torture and prolong the pain.

- Response by heartinmending, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Boston, Self-Employed

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The most annoying calls in life are the ones where someone is drunk/high on the other end of the line.

If you keep calling him, he'll HATE you, his new g/f will beat you up, and he'll call the cops and have you charged with harrassment.

So quit drinking and start thinking.

- Response by truth06, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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