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untitled / Career / 8:46 PM - Saturday May 14, 2005
A Sweet Sarah (Female, Washington, DC, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) asked:


Career advice needed:
I'm 37 years old and have been in the medical field for over 10years now. It's an ok career, but I always feel that there is something else I should be doing? I make $50-60K/year which is better than some and not as good as others. Should I go back to school and find something else a little more fulfilling? How do you know if your in the right career for you? I've always known that I don't want to do what I do forever, but I'm been doing it for so long, the thought of investing time and money for something different is scary. Any advice, I would greatly appreciate.



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A Mr. Married Guy (Male, Miami, 36-45, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: greekattorney


Unless you know exactly what new field you want to persue, it would be unwise to ditch a good career with decent pay just to try something else. Are you actually unhappy with your job? Or just restless?

Also, consider that you could do something else in the same medical field. If you're a nurse, maybe you could try being in admin or something else. Evaluate all your options. Don't make any rash decisions. The job market is not particularly good right now. You don't want to start over at the bottom if you cannot afford it.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Chicago, 29-35, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: adric


If you're questioning whether you're in the right career, and werent planning on doing what you're doing forever, then certainly it's perfectly reasonable to explore other options. I would just be careful before dumping a career in which you make over $50K a year without a clear plan. For example, in medicine, there are hundreds of different careers. Is it medicine that you're bored with, or something about your current job specifically? If you can pinpoint what you do and don't like about your current job, you may be able to find something similar to transition into that has advantages your current job does not. But I would be really wary of going back to school unless you have a clear plan of what "something else more fulfilling" really *is* first.


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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Tel Aviv, 29-35, Science / Engineering) answered:

Screenname: rrr123


I tell you I am 27 and feel the same thing right now! I wish you my best wishes and hope you will find what you desire. I would like to hear more about your journey, maybe it will help with mine. You can contact me any time.

Best of luck

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A Cool Mom (Female, 36-45, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: mekaliee


I know exactly what you are going through. However, girl don't quit your job. The job market is so intense now. I say figure out what you want to really do and take a few course at a time That way you can take it slow. Have you ever thought about teaching or training others. Different isn't always bad it is just according to how you accept change. Take a risk, but do it slowly. good luck it will work out.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, San Francisco, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: bethan44


I'm a RN, and I've wanted to be one since I was a little kid. In middle school and high school, I researched the profession, I shadowed RNs and nurse practitioners on the job, asked them a bajillion questions...and then by the time college rolled around, my mind was made up. I think I'm a competent, conscientious practitioner. I love what I do, and I'm 1000% certain that I made the right choice for myself. I work in medical/trauma critical care, and I love it. I hope to continue my education and become a nurse anesthetist within the next 5-7 years. When I graduated college and started out as a new nurse, I was hired to work on a med/surg floor- a lot of lap appys and lap choles. It was there that I worked with some nurses who obviously only became nurses just for the paycheck or because they couldn't think of anything better to do. They didn't seem to have their hearts set in it, and their work, in my opinion, left a lot to be desired. The only reasons I didn't enjoy med/surg as much as critical care was because med/surg is so boring from a pathophysiologic standpoint and I didn't have as much autonomy as I do know. I worked there for less than a year before I transferred to a critical care unit. But, I DID enjoy med/surg because I got to teach all those nursing students and residents, I got to be charge nurse of the unit, and most of the time, my patients had good outcomes and went home. But, oftentimes, I would beg my supervisor to float me over to critical care just because I got tired of a few of the nurses there complaining about difficult patients, their vacation time not being approved, etc. They were pretty much burnt out and didn't like their jobs. There were so many times I wanted to tell them to "put out or get out", because their attitudes were poor and it was apparent to everyone, especially to the patients and the patient's families.

If someone is unsure about their job after a certain amout of time, they should rethink things and find out of there's a better career for them out there. I think this is a good advice for everyone, but I think it's GREAT advice for anyone who's medical. I think it's especially important that anyone in the medical field follow this advice, because their decision to stay in the field is compromising to patient care and people's wellbeing are involved. I'm not saying you're not a safe practitioner, because you're probably good at what you do. But a person's dissatisfaction with their job is obvious to those who work with that person and those receiving the service. People are aware when the radiology technician/nurse/doctor who's giving them care doesn't want to there, and it makes the radiology technician/nurse/doctor look like big jerk. To reiterate, if you've been in the medical field for over a decade, and you think it's "ok" and you're still unsure if it's your best fit...then it's probably not and you should pack it up. Good luck.

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A Creative (Female, New York, 29-35, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: womanv


WHen I picked my career working in the movie industry, I felt that it was right. It is an unspeakable emotion. I was very lucky to find that at a young age. You have to go for your gut feeling. Plus, you have to be happy with yourself. After to make that achievement no on can't take it from you. Go and explore what you may feel comfortalbe and don't be afraid to take a risk. Once you make that choice there will be people around you that will not understand what you have not. Don't look for approval. That is one thing I never did. Believe me after seven years I am still happy. Not many people find that within themselves. Good Luck eith your journey.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, Calgary, 22-25, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: technofan1


Although I am young to be giving you advice, I believe you should be passionate about your work. If you love what you do, you'll never have to work a day in your life. :). That's my philosophy.

I'm not sure if you have kids or not, but if you feel passionate doing something else, life is too short to wonder whether or not you should do it. If you really want to go back to school go for it! If you aren't sure what to do take a couple of courses that sound interesting and see how it goes! :)

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, San Francisco, 56-65) answered:

Screenname: chesterdad


Have you considered alternative disciplines? There's a lot to choose from these days, and all seem to have a lot to offer.
One of my friends has been practicing "Bowen" therapy (see nsthealth.co m) with good success, and I can vouch for it. It's helped me, and both my horses, with issues that conventional medicine wouldn't help. It's a light-touch, non-invasive approach, and you can use this technique for humans, dogs, horses. People who go into disciplines like this can often have a lot more freedom and independance by being self-employed.

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