I just want to say thank you to everyone that has been giving me advice on my "dating" dilemas. I know most of you wont remember me exactly but I just want to send a big thank you to everyone that has ever answered someones dating question...because in all honestly your advice really helps. So THANK YOU TO YOU ALL!!
--From one person who really appreciates all your advice whether good or bad--

I am an introvert. Does this disqualify me from the dating world? This is my personality, so it is hard for me to follow the typical dating advice which basically amounts to "become an extrovert". However, women confuse introversion with a lack of confidence, so it stands to reason that this advice is in fact my only option if I wish to date. P.S. I have tried internet dating to no avail.

Any perfectionists out there? Are your gf's perfect? How are you appeased? What do you expect from a girl that you are dating? What is your advice to someone else who is dating a perfectionist? This question can also pertain to those dating perfectionists, themselves. Thanks for the advice!

A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Phoenix, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) asked:

how do i now if my exgirlfriend still likes me? i had to move 4 a year and when i come back, shes dating sum other guy, but soon dumps him we're good friends now. i heard her say that the other guy she was dating could only be her friend.any advice/ i give advice 2!!!!!!!!!

A Guy Critical (Male, San Diego, 36-45, Who Cares?) asked:

Ladies,

1. How many of you read magazines like Vogue or relationship books on how to attract men, or for dating advice?

2. What is your favorite dating book that you think has good advice and follow?

Kail

Hi everyone, i really need some advice. Here's my Situation.
I've been dating this guy since July on and off. When i 1st met him, i though he was a nice, quite and decent guy, but i found out that while he was talking and dating me, he was talking to other girls and take them home for one night stands. And he slept with his ex 2 times. So, while talking/dating me he slept with 4 girls since i've been dating him. For a week now, he's been calling me asking me to hang out and i want to but part of me is so scared of getting hurt, because knowing of all the stuff he did, and i know he'll do it again even though he said that he wants to go on the right track and do the right thing. Anyway, now he's telling me that he wants us to start fresh, what should i do? Let him go or what? He didn't ask me what i want. We had this conversation on email. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

A Trendsetter (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) asked:

does anyone else think that everyone who gives you advice on this site, is better than any other advice youd get from others? just wondering because i think its the best i get. its honest whether you like it or not its from the heart right? thanks everyone for helping out a clueless chick in need of some very good advice on dating and what not!!!

I need dating advice, just now getting back in the dating world after a 7 year marriage and i feel like im in another world. I got married when I was young and dont know how to date as an adult. That sounds really dunb, but its true. Any advice would help.

Girls and Guys, I need some serious advice. I dated a girl for 7 years, since I was 16. We broke up a a little over a year and half ago. She is a wonderful girl and I can actually understand her wanting to try dating other people. I was a wreck for awhile. I got over it mostly and started dating another girl like 5 months later. She was great too, but I got annoyed by her at times. I still thought about my ex quite a bit and talked to her once in awhile too. Well, my ex somehow came back into the picture and now wants to be with me. I broke up with the new girl and have been going crazy thinking about it. I know I to try it again with my ex, but I don't know what to do about girl I had dating. They are both such great women. I can picture myself with either. There are reasons to be with both. My question is, How can I make a decision about which woman I want to be with? I know it is hard to give advice considering you know nothing about the two women, but what are some general things to consider? Thanks for any advice

A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, Los Angeles, 29-35, Who Cares?) asked:

So recently, there was discussion if women gave bad dating advice or good one, so I decided to ask a different kind of question:


Men, what was the best dating advice you gotten from a woman?

Women, what was the best dating advice you gotten from a man?

I'll share mine later

Update: January 30, 2008.
The best advice I got was back in 1999. This female friend made me promise her, that I would talk to a lot of female since she believed I can get a girlfriend easily, but I had to take the risk & talk to them. Which was good since I needed that push, & I always found women very scary to talk to.